It would seem that after the 1989 incident, the Brown family finally had the evidence they needed to prevail upon Nicole to get out of the marriage.
Denise had, at Nicole's request, taken a photograph of her bruised face, which Nicole locked away in her safe-deposit box.
Her father also saw that photo, says Jean Vaziri, "but he dismissed it. Now he feels he should have done something."
Meanwhile, both O.J. and Nicole told the Browns how deeply they loved each other and that they were determined to work things out.
The violence, they both swore, was finished.
In fact the beatings had not been a constant in their relationship.
"It's hard to believe," says a friend, "but it wasn't the norm. There was a lot of good. There was a lot of fun."
The violence was real but sporadic. "There is a great myth," says domestic violence authority Gelles, "that abusive husbands are abusive 24 hours a day, 52 weeks a year. They are not."
It is likely that the Browns never knew the full truth about the degree of violence in their daughter's marriage.
Nicole revealed only fragments of her life with O.J.; no friend or family member saw the whole picture.
Denise, says Eve Chen, was distraught that she couldn't get her sister to open up more.
And as close as Nicole was to her mother, there were some things she simply wouldn't discuss.
Once, after Nicole told her about the nasty fights she'd had with O.J., Juditha Brown expressed fury at her son-in-law. From that day on, says Chen, Nicole seldom confided in her mother.
What could Nicole's friends and family have done?
What should they have done?
For Nicole's friends and family, along with thoughts of what might have been, comes the agonizing voice of self-recrimination.
"Maybe I single-handedly couldn't have helped Nicole," says a close friend, "but if she had heard time after time, 'You are strong, you are good, you can do it on your own, you don't need to take this..'
If she heard that enough times in the voices of enough people who loved her, maybe it would have saved her life."
People Magazine
February 20 1995